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There is a simple test to know if something, or someone, is good for you:
Someone may say the right things, but remember: Words are cheap. Many supposedly spiritual people are not spiritual at all. They are into power, not truth. Be aware. People get involved in cults, and in destructive relationships, because they are listening to the words and are not listening to their own intuition. Are you becoming stronger? More independent, wiser, more loving and courageous as a result of this association? Or…is this person making you afraid of the world and afraid to think for yourself? If the association is making you a weaker person, get away from it. Get it out of your life. The sooner, the better. This includes so-called friends and acquaintances. I once had a “friend” who was always calling me wanting me to do things with her. I was new in town and I was happy for the friendship. But whenever we were together, she would find subtle ways to put me down and build herself up. I made one excuse after another for her uncivil behavior until I finally faced the sad truth: This person was not my friend. Only when I was willing to face this unsavory fact was I able to start saying “no” to her invitations and she left my life. Jesus said, “Ye shall know them by their fruits.” This means you shall know people by their actions, and the results of those actions, not by their words. The best conartists are the best talkers. And they can sound so sincere. Be aware. Stop listening to the words and look at the results. Listen to your own feelings. Then get unwholesome people and influences out of your life and start believing in yourself again. Here is an email I recently sent to a friend who was thinking about moving in with a man she hadn't known very long. Perhaps it may be helpful to you as well: My Letter to a friend...
The book I'm referring to is "Spiritual Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse." I highly recommend this book for anyone who tends to attracts unwholesome relationships with users, takers, and/or abusers. It will help you gain clarity and help you get your Self back so that you can start attracting more wholesome relationships. For more information, Click Here If you are already in an abusive relationship, and you need help getting out, I highly recommend "How to Spot a Dangerous Man." You receive 3 eBooks for the price of one, including a book on the Right Way to leave an abuser, so that you can ensure your safety and the safety of your children. For more information, Click Here! Check Your Date. We know that
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