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Is He Treating You the Way You Deserve?

Why It's Called a Breakup

Being an Effective Listener

When Do You Know 
If He's Mr. Right?

Why It's Called a Breakup

Attracting Women - 
How To Impress Women

Attracting Women - Do You Really Have to be a Bad Boy?

Love: A Pearl Beyond Price

How To Know When Someone 
Is Good for You

The Green Eyed Monster

An Act of Kindness

Relating to Your Unborn Child

Stopping Child Abuse 
A message from the angels 
by Doreen Virtue


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Is He Treating You the Way You Deserve?
Get a Good Man and Toss the Bad Boy!

by Amy Waterman, Relationship Expert

A
lovely friend of mine had it all. A great job, a college degree, fun roommates 
in a great suburb.... She was in her early twenties and on top of the world.

Then an economic recession hit. She lost her job, and in some inexplicable turn 
of fate was unable to find another one that paid as well as the unemployment benefit.

Life circumstances like that take a toll on your self-esteem. Men that you 
wouldn't look twice at when things are going well suddenly become a 
lifeline when you're vulnerable.

And that's what happened to her. She hooked up with a verbally abusive player who 
would make inappropriate phone calls in the middle of the night when he was drunk 
and refuse to acknowledge her as his girlfriend.

But, like most women in a vulnerable situation, she preferred something to 
nothing.
Focusing on him took the focus away from her precarious situation. 
Focusing on his indiscretions made her feel like a good person in comparison.

The story didn't end happily. She didn't manage to convert the bad boy into the 
"good man" she imagined seeing beneath. Rather, he showed his true colors, 
leaving her insecure, needy and jealous ... all qualities that her former independent 
self would have never recognized.

When we're in a vulnerable place in our lives, we become even more 
vulnerable
to men who aren't good for us.

They're men who make us feel jealous, insecure and needy.

They're men who make us feel not attractive enough, not exciting enough, 
or not adventurous enough.

They're men who make us doubt ourselves.

Those kinds of men aren't just bad apples. They're actually dangerous.

They're dangerous to our self-esteem and our self-confidence. They damage our 
hopes and dreams by dragging them through the dirt of an ugly reality. We hang 
on for dear life, hoping that we'll tame the bad boy and deserve a happily-ever-after 
for our efforts...

...But all that happens is that we get thrown off, bruised and muddy and emotionally battered. It will take a lot of courage to try riding that horse again.

By letting ourselves buy into the belief that we can change a man or tame 
a bad boy, we actually hurt our chances of attracting a good man.

By getting used to a man treating us with disrespect - telling us we're not attractive, 
asking us for money, using our kindness, putting us down - we get accustomed to 
an unhealthy dynamic. We start to think that's normal. We start to think that we 
have to earn a man's love.

That's why, in this article, I want to tell you how you should be treated by a man.

Before you ask - NO, I'm not setting the bar too high. I'm simply laying out three basic guidelines that any genuine, decent, loving man will easily achieve.

1. A Good Man Will Compliment You

You see, a good man who's besotted with you will find you incredibly attractive. 
He may even feel embarrassed that he finds you more attractive than his favorite 
celebrity star. He knows that you're just an ordinary girl - he knows that to his 
friends you're just another girl out of many girls - but in his eyes you just glow. 
It doesn't have to do with your cosmetics. It doesn't have to do with your hairstyle 
or clothes.

It has to do with you.

And if a man "negs" you - e.g., he makes fun of your looks - he's a player. Just read 
Neil Strauss' The Game for proof of the tricks men play on women to poke holes in 
their self-esteem.

2. A Good Man Will Want to Take Care of You

I recently heard that a friend of mine had hooked up with a man much older than 
she was. She was a single mother struggling in a foreign country, and this man 
was twenty years older, a native, and had a long career under his belt.

He told her that his political philosophy was based on the fundamental equality 
of all persons: male and female, rich and poor. In fact, his deep philosophical 
convictions and intelligence were what attracted her to him for the first place.

They moved in together, and the practical consequences of his belief became 
apparently. Equality, for him, meant complete financial independence from one 
another. He had his money, and she had hers.

Even when she was struggling to eat and feed her child, he refused to help her 
with buying food or contribute any more to the bills. Even when she lost her job 
and didn't know what to do - worried that she'd have to move back home - he didn't 
express an opinion. He believed that it was through struggle that we become strong, 
so, by helping her to survive, he would be depriving her of a valuable learning 
opportunity.

Now these may all be valid points in a political philosophy, but he was not her teacher. 
He was her lover. She imagined a future with him.

It was clear to everyone but her that this was NOT a man who wanted a relationship. 
This was a man who wanted a roommate with benefits.

A man who wants a future with a woman dreams of providing for her. Even 
though he may not be the wealthiest man on the planet, he loves the little things he 
can do for the one he loves. He loves being of service to her. He wants to support her 
in her dreams in whatever way he can.

3. A Good Man Will Try His Best

We're not all perfect. We make mistakes, we say things that hurt our partner, and 
we do stupid things that we later regret.

But a man who wants to make the relationship work will put in the effort.

It may not be easy for him. He may feel like he's outside of his comfort zone. But he 
WILL try his best. He'll do things that he hopes will make you happy. He'll do what 
he feels is best for the both of you.

Now, when I say that he will try his best, I don't mean that his best will always be 
enough. Nor do I mean that his best will be identical to what you think is best.

But a good man puts in the effort. Regardless of whether his efforts succeed or fail, 
he tries.

Why does he try his best?

Because he doesn't want to lose you. Ever.

And that's why you should never settle for the bad boy, who would throw 
away the gift of being with you as if it were an empty pop can.

The real man won't throw you away that easily.

Don't EVER settle for anyone less.

Learn More at:

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About the Author:

Amy Waterman is a professional writer specializing in attraction, dating, and 
relationships. She has extensive experience in helping women find love with her 
insightful and powerful secrets into attracting love and making relationships work. 
She is currently the host of the latest edition of "How To Be Irresistible To Men," 
which is part of the 000Relationships Network.

Her innovative program is a powerful instant-access multimedia course with a comprehensive supporting workbook. Additionally, members receive a number of 
bonus eBooks on topics ranging from overcoming shyness to kissing, a 160-minute 
online video library, secrets of self-hypnosis, their very own personal email consultation, and much, much more! The "How To Be Irresistible To Men" Premium Course offers 
all women – single or not - a dynamic and comprehensive toolkit to attract love into 
their lives and establish strong and supportive relationships. You can learn more 
about how to attract the man of your dreams and get the relationship you always 
wanted at:

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