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How To Attract Women: Do You Have To Be A Bad Boy?
by
James, Relationship Expert
 It
seems that when it comes to men chasing women, we guys are divided into
two camps: the nice guys... and the bad boys.
This is a very extreme way of
looking at things, making men think that they have to make some huge decision
with serious repercussions, like choosing between the Jedi and Dark Side,
good and bad, black and white.
But
what about the middle ground? If you're a nice guy who puts
women on a pedestal and lets them get away with everything, you certainly
can't let them keep doing this. But if you're a bad guy who treats women
like yesterday's garbage, you're not gonna do much better either. So
there's got to be some compromise. Here are my seven proven techniques for
getting women by embracing your "inner bad boy"--while still
allowing yourself to be you.
1. Surprise them.
If there's one thing girls love, it's a surprise. There's nothing better
than keeping them on their toes. Do this by going against social norms;
for example, giving her the "black power fist" when she's
expecting a handshake. Or walk up to her and challenge her to a game of
thumb wars. As you're having a great conversation, say you've gotta leave.
This all goes a long ways towards making her heart flutter, and making YOU
more attractive.
2. Do the unexpected.
Unfortunately, nice guys always do what they're SUPPOSED to do. They say
hello, ask sincerely how a girl is, stare in awe as she says she's a
model. BORING. Nah, you've gotta release your inner bad boy by doing the
stuff you're NOT supposed to do. Show her you're fun, show her you're
fearless: flirt shamelessly, grin at a sexual comment, tease unabashedly.
You don't have to be a complete jerk to do these things, just a guy who's
confident that he'll get away with things that aren't "the
norm". Girls love to not know what to expect, so do the unexpected!
3. Be a rebel.
I'm not saying to break the law, but don't always go by the rules. Show
her you're fun, break conventions here and there. So what if there are
people watching! Give her a big kiss in the middle of the street. So what
if boardwalk is closed? Take her for a romantic midnight stroll Who cares
if the speed limit is 50? Drive her at 75 and watch her scream in delight.
You don't have to be a complete jerk to show a girl some fun.
4. Get physical.
If you're not already at a gym or into martial arts, now is the time.
Girls love a guy who can kick butt. It's the part of the bad boy that
makes them feel safe and secure. So get to work on your body--nothing says
irresistible like a man in shape who can kick some butt.
5. Make her feel safe.
Show her your confidence, your self-assuredness by taking her hand,
walking on the side of the sidewalk closest to the street, and never
backing down from any situation. That's not a license to get into fights,
just to make her feel protected.
6. Tease.
This is a strategy you can't go wrong with. Bad boys never let a girl get
away with unacceptable behavior. If she's talking like she's the greatest
person ever, they'll joke, "Man, if this lady's ego gets any bigger
we're all gonna have to evacuate!" If she says she's a model, say
something to the effect of, "Oh yeah? Is that it?" And show her
your value by saying, "Listen, I'm afraid I'm not gonna be able to
stay around. Your mouth is destroying my ear drums." In other words,
don't be afraid to joke around and put her in her place!
7. Develop attitude.
I just can’t emphasize enough how crucial having a winning, confident
attitude is. You don’t care what others say. You don’t care what
others think. No matter how a woman reacts, it just blows right over you.
That’s because you’re always in control. No woman—whether beautiful,
popular, or rich—has power over you. You don’t need anyone, you’re
not dependent on anyone, and you don’t have to cling to anyone. If she
thinks she's too good for you, you get right up and move to the next girl,
because you're a catch and you know it!
Remember, you don't have to be
a complete bad guy to get the girls. Just embrace the winning
characteristics of bad boys, and you'll be lining up women left and right!
Don't forget, if you want to
learn more about using "the inner bad boy" to attract more
women, visit my website at:
http://www.000relationships.com/towomen
Now it's YOUR turn!
About the Author:
James is the author of the latest edition of "How
to Be Irresistible to Women PREMIUM." His years of dating
experience and international travel have tutored him in the art of meeting
and seducing females the world over and introduces a worldly approach to
dating and developing real relationships necessary for the modern man.
The "How to Be Irresistible to Women" package offers single men
a dynamic and comprehensive tool-kit to attract women and establish an
honest and supportive relationship. You can learn more about how to
attract the woman of your dreams at:
http://www.000relationships.com/towomen
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